Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Interview with Vena Hall Hobbs (About 2012)

Troy and Vena







Interview with Vena Hall Hobbs about 2012

Vena:  I was 10 in 1926.  I know everybody lost everything they had. My dad did too. We lived in town in Ash Flat. He’d been working the cotton gin, I think. We just sold out and us and two more couples, they came with us to California in a Model T Ford.  We sold all our furniture.

We knew some people out here, quite a few people. That was our first trip to California. Then we went back and stayed while dad farmed in Missouri 3 years. Then we came back in ’35. Troy and I got married back there and we came back here to California.

Inez met Chap there.

Grandpa worked on a ranch out on 12th and Grangeville owned by a John Hall.  Not related.  Daddy worked on the ranch and he had a house for us.  We lived there in the house. We moved into it. Dad could get a job anywhere. He was a farmer then.

We had it pretty good. We walked to school. We didn’t grow our own food, we bought it.  The man had dried fruit and stuff like that we ate. We lived there maybe a year.

We had electricity, sure!  In Arkansas we didn’t have electricity. We had kerosene lamps. We heated and cooked with wood. We heated our irons on the stove. We had to buy the kerosene.  We washed on a washboard in a tub. We lived on a farm in Missouri. That’s where dad got to drinking so bad.

We had a big ole washtub, we heated the water on the stove for a bath.  We made it through ok.

We had a basketball. We played keep-away and stuff like that. You know what else we did? We had silver dollars. We’d make a hole and see who could pitch a dollar.

Oh, I remember Grandma Kissinger. I slept with her from the time I was 2 years old until I got married. She was so good! I was her girl!  And Ralph was ornery and Inez was too big, so I got to sleep with her. Grandma would go stay with people when they was sick.

Grandma was a practical nurse. She’d go stay with people when they had babies and I’d go with her everywhere. She delivered babies a lot of times. I’d always go alone and stay with her. I stayed with her more than I did mama. I remember one time kids at school had bugs on their heads. I come home.  She’d get me down and part my hair! I never got em!

Grandma Kissinger was medium sized, not as tall as you (I’m 5’3). She had long auburn hair, the prettiest hair, and she done it up on top of her head. Gloanna remembers her when they lived in the old hotel.  I remember mom took me up to see her when she died. She was one of the loveliest people I ever knew.  She was only 60 when she died. She had just started Social Security. She had got one or two checks when she died. She died of pneumonia. She fell and broke her hip and got pneumonia.

We stayed with friends in Arkansas lived next door to us. When Sophie and WL come out, Grandma came with us.

When we first came out, there was me and Troy, Chap and Inez, Gloanna, Ralph and Helen, Mom and Dad all in one Model T!  Ralph rode on the lard can sitting between the seats.  Grandma stayed there. We couldn’t bring her. We didn’t have room. Jim and Pearl, she stayed with them.

Troy and I got married. Mom and Dad, Chap and Inez come with us. Then Sophie and WL came. Then her mom and dad came, Woodrow and Patrice, Adam and Loretta. They all just started coming out. All of your dad’s people (she meant Pa Cato). I told Troy, “Boy when we got married and come out we started something!”  Then Uncle Jimmy and Aunt Ory.

It took us 6 days to drive out. Started the 6th, got here the 12th. Chap and Troy went to work picking fruit for 25 cents an hour. Got here one morning and they started work at noon.

Dad didn’t have a job the first time we came. My dad would work! He’d find a job. We hadn’t been here a day or two til he got work. We lived in the old hotel when we came out the 2d time. It’s not there anymore. They had rooms to rent.

We stopped beside the road, put our beds out and slept under the stars. We had quilts and blanets on the ground.  We gave a ride to this old guy. They car had fumes coming up through.   Everything we’d stop the car, I’d faint. We got to this side of Phoenix and they decided they’d better stop and took me to the doctor.  Got a cabin at the motel and stayed there for 2 weeks.  Mom, Dad, and Inez picked cotton. Got acquainted with Les Brown, a black guy who lived near us. He wanted to go back. Dad said, “Well, if you’ll help me drive, I’ll take you back.” 

Well, he did. When we got there, Dad said, “Now don’t you go back there and tell them we brought this (black guy) with us!”  My dad wasn’t against blacks, but a lot of  Southerners didn’t like that. So we’s afraid to say anything. We liked him real well though.  He was a nice kid.  I’m glad times have changed.

The first time we come out, two couples came with us. We put up a tent. We had the tent up and Dad slept at the end where the flap was.  Put his overalls under his head. That night somebody got his pants.  Next morning, his pants was on the back of the truck and all his money was gone.  Dad called mama’s brother, Uncle Arthur, and he sent us money to the next town and he sent money to come on.


They was standoffish until mama was a widow. After dad died, they come to get her to eat.  That’s his tool chest in there in Danny’s room.  When Uncle Arthur died, they gave it to me.  I took all the paint off and put new paint on and changed the hinges.  When Raymond come to see us, he said, “I want that!”  I said, “You can’t have it!”

(I wonder what become of it when Vena went into the nursing home)

We ate pork and beans, and bologna.  Bought it along the way.  When Ma and Pa traveled, we slept on the ground. She took along her big iron skillet. We would build a fire and cook gravy. We’d put it over bread and eat it. My mother (Gloanna) remembers that. No hotels back then.

One time when we come out with Chap and Inez, we got a cabin that night and stayed in it.  Cap and Troy went to the store to get some freuit and some guy propositioned them. They was scared to death. They was so scared! :::laughing:::

Inez met Chap at Kennet. We landed there. Us and Finleys. Their dad had a school bus and Carl drove it down there. He was my boyfriend then.  Inez went with Cap and I went with Bill Fry. We’d all just go together that way.  Couple of boys, Slim and Jim.  We’d go places in the truck. Had a lot of fun. Run around together. Mom and Dad didn’t want Inez to marry Chap.

He was big feeling. He had 2 acres of cotton down there. And instead of him helping picking, he’d sit up on top of the trailer, and they took a dislike to him.  To keep her from marrying him, they gave her money to go to Uncle Walker’s and instead, she went to Hardy and got Chap word. Then they got married.

He followed her to Arkansas, Hardy. They met in the cotton field, but he didn’t pick no cotton!

Troy and Woodrow. We lived at Hardy. They come up there and a girl I run around with, Patrice, knew Woodrow, and then I met Troy.  Three month, then we got married. I asked him one day, “How come you never tried to get smart with me?”  He said, “I knew better!”

The photo I found was Grandma’s dad. He took typhoid and died before they could get married. Chris Sowards (I have a different name but I’ll look into this name)  She had a little purse that was hers. I got to lookin’ at it and it was way down in the bottom under the lining. I got it out and looked at it and knew the minute I looked at it who it was. She’d carried it all these long years.  Amie Soward lived up on Walnut Street. We knew something because they never talked about it. Inez and me one day went to ask Amie. We walked up there and told her we wanted to know the history. It was Amie’s dad’s brother.

(Every time I found Ada listed in the census she was listed as her mother’s SISTER – probably to protect her.)

Grandma and Grandpa Hall got married on horseback.

Before Grandpa, Grandma was going to get married but he was killed in the war. She went with Earl Finley’s dad for a long time. He had a moving picture out there. He came and put up a camp and showed movies. Mama said that used to be her boyfriend.

Inez went with Euell, Eldon, and the other one too. I went with Pal Finley. Mom went with the old man.  :::she’s laughing:::  I guess we liked them Finleys.

Mama and me had hard times in Hardy.  We took in washing and cleaned.  They was separated then.   When Troy and me got ready to come there, he was ready to come with us. But he got to drinking when he was in Missouri.

(I changed the subject)

When you butcher a hog, you’d wait til first freezing weather, then butcher them.  Hog-killin weather. They’d smoke what we couldn’t eat.  We’d eat the ribs, liver. The hams and side meat bacon and shoulders would get smoked.  They had smokers and hung it in the smokehouse. That cured it. It wouldn’t spoil.  They’d rub salt on it first. Dad used to butcher hogs. Had big cauldrons to put them in. (I have one – Annie’s note) Mostly the men smoked it and hung it.

By that time, they had lockers and mama and daddy put theirs in the food lockers down here in Armona.  Mr. Moore.

We’d can everything. We’d have potatoes – just pull them out of the ground. Kept them in the cool places. Cellars kept them cool. No refrigerators.

Gloann remembers on Walnut Street in Armona. Everybody kept their ice-boxes in the living room. They’d deliver big blocks of ice. Never had one of those until we come out here. I remember our first one.

I remember our first television in the 50’s. Oh, the boys saw Gene Autry and the Cowboys! Danny’s see him fighting and just draw back his fist!

[Mom (Gloanna) was in high school and she said this boy had a tv and the kids would all go there to see it.]


Second Interview

This Second interview was when Vena was in the nursing home soon before she passed away, I’m asking her about her Grandma Mary Jane Massey:

Vena:  Uncle Sam Massey was grandmother’s brother. He had family, of course, they was our cousins.  They all visited back and forth.

Massey. Uncle Sam. Sam Massey.

They lived beween Ash Flat and Hardy. Evening Shade, that’s where they lived.

Uncle Sam and Aunt Lucy.

I think her name was Lucy. We had another Aunt Lucy too. Aunt Lucy Tadlock.  A lot of people named Lucy then ::chuckling::

Not many left. They’s Floyd. He lives up there by Salem. And I don’t know any more.

My grandmother was a Massey

Sam, Uncle Sam Massey.
Yeah. Her other brother’s name was . . .
I don’t know.

Sam was her brother. Uncle Sam Massey.

Annie:  Did he have any kids?

Vena:  Yeah, he had Floyd was his boy’s name. Floyd Massey.  He had kids then.

Annie:  Do you know if Mary Jane Massey was Indian?

Vena:  I don’t know. I think she was part Indian. Yeah, she was. She was part Indian. I remember her sittin on the porch, rockin and rockin, all day long. That was the Indian in her.  ::laughing::

Annie:  Did you like her?

Vena:  Oh, I loved her! She was sweet.

Annie: What do you remember about her?

Vena:  Well I remember one time, she, we had to go down a ways, there was a spring down there where we got water. And she went down to get water and the wolves got after her.  She tore her clothes off and threw a piece at a time down. They’d stop and tear it up and that’d give her time to run a little farther and she was completely naked when she got to the houseThe men comed in and they got after em. They killed part of em. They was bad.

Annie: The wolves were bad?

Vena:  Yeah, you know they’d thinned em out pretty good. They wasn’t a many of them left around there. They was afraid of people any more so they didn’t bother us much. We could hear them at night. Oh, they’d sound so awful. But we always managed everybody’d get indoors at night and we had the doors fastened inside so nobody could open it up from the outside so we’d just, everybody’d managed to get in at dark. We’s sure glad for that.

Annie: Did you ever know of anybody to get killed by a wolf?

Vena:  Oh yeah, lot of people did.  In the earlier days. They were mean.

Annie: Do you remember your grandpa?

Vena:  My Grandpa Hall?

Huh-uh. No. He was gone when I got here.

(My mother is talking in the background asking if he was the one in the prison camp. No, that was Pa Cato’s grandfather.)

We always was at grandmother’s house. Every time we all wanted to eat, they made some big tables, put it outside, and everybody’d take food and we’d all go there and eat all the time.

Annie: Oh yeah? What would you eat?

Vena:  Oh, everything good.  Yeah.  People’d bring it from all over and come and eat with us.   We had, they called em cork plates. They’s paper plates.

Annie: Do you remember going camping’?

Vena:  Oh yeah!

Annie: Did you go camping a lot?

Vena:  No, not a lot, but we went once or twice a year.

Annie: Do you remember anything about Millie’s grandparents, Luke Hall? Did you know Luke Hall, your Uncle Luke?

Vena:  No, I didn’t know em. I’ve heard of him and folks knew him, you know.

Annie: But Mildred was your cousin, right?

Vena:  Yeah. My dad and Uncle Luke were brothers. And Uncle Luke was Mildred’s dad.

Annie: Did you ever do anything with Mildred?

Vena:  Oh, we stayed all night with her and she stayed with us.  Yeah, we was close.

Gloanna:  Vene, was Ray Millie’s brother?  The one who started the hospital there and the one who was a doctor?

Vena:  Yeah. That was Mildred’s brother. He was a doctor.

Annie: You have some good memories!

Vena:  Oh, I have a lot of good memories. We had a good childhood.
Everybody loved everybody. You never heard of people fightin’ or anything like that.

Gloannea: Those were fun times, huh?

Vena:  Yeah. You know we was workin there on the farm where we was stayin. We was tying grapevines.  They pruned em then we’d have to wrap em and tie em.  So we was there. That morning I said, “ I had a bad dream last night that Uncle Sam Massey had died.”  Mama had a letter mail that day, Uncle Sam had died. I dreamed it just as plain. It’s funny how you do things that way.

Annie? Have you done any other things like that?  Any other dreams like that?

Vena:  No, I don’t remember any more.

Annie: Just that one. Isn’t that something. How did he died? Just an old man?

Vena:  I don’t know. I think he had pneumonia.  A lot of people did then. They’d take a cold, then they’d take pneumonia.
Then they didn’t have medicine like they do now.

Annie: Did you know any of your other Uncles in the Hall family?
Did you know any of your dad’s brothers?
Tell me some stories about them. Who were they?

Vena:  There was five of them.  Well Uncle Henry was the oldest.  Uncle Dolphus. Uncle Luke. Annnnnnnnnnd Uncle Mac.

Annie: Who was your favorite one?

Vena:  Oh, I don’t know.  Uncle Henry was always teasin us. He’d light a match and put it in his mouth. Then he’d put his tongue out and it was still lit.  ::laughing::

Annie: He could eat fire, huh?

Vena:   Yeah ::laughing::Oh. He had a mustache.

Gloanna:  Wonder he didn’t catch it on fire!

Vena:   Aunt Maggie was his wife’s name. Indian Maggie. Arkie was their daughter.
Arkadelphia.

Annie: Arkadelphia! Where’d they get that name?

Vena:   I don’t know. And ________, and Faye, and Edgar. Faye was married to Edgar. And I don’t know I guess all of em.

Annie: Did you guys get together when you were kids? With all those uncles and aunts?

Vena:   Oh yeah. We’s always together. I drove the old car. I got to where I could drive it. I’d drive it up to Grandmother’s house.Aunt Minnie. I’d drive the car. It was an old touring car.   Yeah.  One day Inez cranked it and it was in gear. She didn’t know it. It started up and run over her. Cut both of her knees real bad. She was crippled up for a long time.  They had a place way out in the country.  Arkie had em bring her. She stayed in there with her for a few weeks. They’s so good to her.

Annie: Do you want to sit up a little bit? Are you comfortable?

Vena:   I’m comfortable.

Annie: Did you have a refrigerator when you were a girl?

Vena:   No, we had an icebox.
We’d freeze ice and put it in there.

Annie: Where’d you get the ice.

Vena:   We’d freeze it at night and we’d put it in the icebox in the daytime then.

Annie: You mean you’d freeze water when it got cold at night?

Vena:   Yeah, put it in the icebox in the daytime then.

Gloanna: Did they put it in something to freeze? Or was there a pond?What did you freeze it in?

Vena:   Pans.  We’d put it in the top of the icebox then. It’d keep our milk and everything cold.

Annie: Did you buy your milk or get it from a cow?

Vena:   We bought it.  In cartons.

Annie: Did you ever have a cow?

Vena:   Yeah, we did.
Most of the time we had a cow. We’d put the milk, we’d strain it through clth and put it in jars, gallon jars, then close the lid down tight on it. It keeps several days like that. When it soured, we’d churn it then and make butter.

Annie: Oh, you’d churn it and make butter?

Vena:   Uh huh. 

Annie: Did you ever make cheese?

Vena:   No, we made cottage cheese but never made cheese.

Annie: When the milk went sour what would you do with it? Throw it away?

Vena:   No, mama made biscuits and we’d use it to cook with.
Put soda in it to keep it from being sour.
Arm and Hammer Soda.

Annie: That’d keep your milk from going sour?  I didn’t know that.

At this point she tells us a bad memory we won’t repeat here.

Then she talks about Uncle Mac and Aunt Minnie.

Vena:   They had two daughters, Wanda Jean and Veneta. And a boy named Austin. He was crippled, he had rickets and he died. We were all sitting around his bed when he died.  I’ll never forget, Veneta said when he died, she said, “ He’s a little angel now!”

Yeah, goodness we had a lot of memories.  We all wound up at Grandmother’s house all the time.  My mom and dad would take food. Mama would make potato salad and things and we’d take em so Aunt Minny wouldn’t have to cook.

Gloanna:  You told me how grandpa would buy candy for his mother and she wouldn’t share it with you kids.

Vena:   Oh yeah. She’d eat it right in front of us. Dad always took grandmother candy. :::laughing::    Grandmother was an old stinker!

Annie:  Is that Mary Jane Massey?

Vena:   Yeah, Mary Jane.

Gloanna:  She scared you guys too, didn’t she? Wasn’t she the one who scared you?

Vena:   Yeah, she’d take a pillow case and pad the corners and make ears. She’d cut out eyes and nose and mouth and put it on a broom, and get out and stick it up in the window.  Us kids knew what it was but we’s scared every time. ::laughing:: We’d run and scream and cry.

Everyone’s laughing:::

Annie:  At Christmas time did you get a big Christmas tree?

Vena:   No, finally we’d put a little one up but we never put a big one up until after I was grown and had my own home and I’d get a Christmas tree and decorated it.

Annie: You guys didn’t do it when you were kids? When you were a little girl grandma and grandpa didn’t have a Christmas tree?

Vena:   We did after a while. I can remember the first time we got one. Went down on the hillside and cut down a pine tree.

After this Aunt Vena started getting tired. We teased her about wanting to marry Dr. Dean. Then we gave her lots of hugs and said our goodbyes.

I sure do miss Aunt Vena.
She was a kick in the pants and made me laugh all the time.
What wonderful memories I have of her!

She always reminded me how she saved my life one Thanksgiving.
But that is another story!
 
Front Row:  Annie, Aunt Vena, Gloanna
Back Row: Christie, Janie, Richard, Aunt Jean










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